Control (3) --- Decisions based on outcome

How do you make your decisions?

Do you notice that the decisions that you made in the past make exactly what you are now? It is not surprising to know that most people make decisions by looking back into the past to find similarities to what is now at hand. This makes them repeating their lives circle instead of going ahead.

What we are today is the result of series of decisions we made in the past. The decisions we make today create what we're going to be in 10 years time or even less. Is it not important we focus on how we make decisions to create our desired future?

Yes. To control our decision-making process, we operate in 3 levels.

1. Foresight
2. Patience
3. Flexibility

Primitively, humans, like most animals, respond to whatever happens in their environment impulsively, or taking spur of the moment action. This results in damages or problems you will live to amend.

People in control use foresight -- they look ahead, imagine consequences of potential behavior, and anticipated outcome. Get clear with that.

Then exercise patience or even go deeper into self where the world is so calm and peaceful, it could be a minute, 30 minutes, or even an hour, depending on the urgency of problem. In there, they create comfortability between the response and outcome. This also allows more information to come into their awareness.

They then have flexibility to consider so many options they have at hand to make a decision based on clarity, trusting the response to produce the desired outcome.

You see? CONTROL is like a gateway to enjoy anything good. You have to have the key in order to enjoy love, happiness, serenity, peace, freedom, and so on.

Use it every moment in your life, and notice how well it works for you to see how well it works?